Wanting to talk chat to couples about sex
I'll admit that in some ways, it's understandable that we reel ourselves in once a guy becomes a permanent fixture.
" Everyone chuckled, a few mumbled "me neither," and then the room went silent.And though your sex life might be good (you know what works, what you want to try, and what you'll never do — never, babe), that doesn't mean it couldn't get even better. The times I've opened up about sex with my married friends have been kind of amazing.The pregnancy talk we'd just had included details only a woman's gynecologist should know, but talking about sex for fun? I can't help but think that if that room had been full of single ladies, things would have been very different.Before I got married, my friends and I talked freely, casually, even competitively about what we were doing in the bedroom.Bottom line: We stop talking because it seems like the right thing to do. All those needs we had as single women — to bond and to learn — don't go away when we get married. to know that having sex is vital to keeping a marriage happy.
If anything, they get bigger, because sex becomes more important. Even a quickie can right wrongs and do what no couples counselor ever could.