Im dating when im not suppose to
It is much better to give closure to something that has been started.Otherwise, people can be left destabilized, questioning themselves and more guarded for the next relationship.No one deserves to be left hanging without explanation. Show your match the same respect you would want if the tables were turned.
I don’t want to hurt her but I don’t want to waste her time either. In my opinion, this one is pretty simple; all it takes is just a bit of maturity combined with honesty and sensitivity. When two people begin to date, they put so much on the line.
While the truth definitely needs to be told, the more you can embed this truth in a dignified context, the easier it will be understood and received. Use your knowledge of the person and your interactions to guide what you say. If you need some help with the actual words you use, here’s a good place to start: "This is not easy for me to say, and perhaps it won’t be easy for you to hear.
So when one person decides he/she isn’t interested in pursuing the relationship further, it can be tempting to want to avoid confrontation or hurt feelings.
Normally considerate people will justify completely disappearing by saying they don’t want to hurt the other person.
Yes, delivering the "I’m not interested" message to any feeling person will be a bit uncomfortable.
But it’s almost certain to create more discomfort or even pain if you wait.