Dating someone with issues
Although you can give him the speech, it takes more than words to convince him. If he feels included, he won’t start thinking that you are trying to hide anything (or anyone) from him.He might start asking you why you don’t reply to his text message immediately, or why you didn’t tell him what you were up to last time, or who was that guy that said hi to you.
And if he lets you in, it’s just going to be totally worth it because he’ll only break down his walls for someone worthy of his trust.
A man who had an unfaithful partner will tend to have a deflated ego.
But if you truly like him and hope that things will work out between the two of you, then you have to do things that will make trust a non-issue. If you reversed the situation, what would you want the man you are dating to do in order to make you feel secure with him?
Although it may seem that you have to do plenty of things explicitly to instill trust, unfortunately it is the only thing you can do.
Make him realize that the fault doesn’t lie with him.