Dating customs in china

Posted by / 29-Apr-2015 05:29

I've found since my time living in China the rules of dating etiquette are much more important than they are with western women in western countries.

In general, whenever I date a Chinese woman, which is mostly the case in the past eight years, I will always follow the following tips.

Politeness is important in every culture, and this is even more the case in Chinese culture.

Now, this one is actually harder to quantify than you might at first imagine.

Now, if she knows exactly what she wants, then fine, but you will find most of the time they will worry that what they choose may be wrong, or be something you don't like.This is due to Chinese culture being very different from western culture, or in fact, any other culture I have come across.It is sometimes the case that what a westerner believes to be polite is sometimes completely the opposite of being polite in Chinese culture.One example would be in the giving of gifts, in Chinese culture it's actually rude to open a gift in front of the giver!So let's take a look at when using Chinese Dating Rules that'll help make her attracted to you and also feel you are the kind of guy that can fit her: 1. Whereas in western culture we will steer clear of making any reference to good-looks when we first meet someone of the opposite sex, within Chinese culture this is perfectly normal. A western female you first meet may role her eyes and then make sure to avoid us after we comment on her beauty, but a Chinese woman won't.

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Remember, in Chinese culture dishes are usually shared and no matter even if you are in a western restaurant, this will still be on her mind. Most Chinese women expect the male to take the lead in a conversation.